Everyone normal should become an In a world full of tens be an eleven shirt. This is surprisingly easy, because they always act the same, all the time, and they do the same things to people over and over again. There is a narc pattern. So one good book will do it. The best book I ever found on narcissism generally is Prepare to be Tortured- the price you will pay for dating a narcissist. AB Jamieson, Amazon. This is why I always recommend it. It covers all the layman needs to know about narcissism, and is written in a clear, concise, colloquial way, without psychobabble, which is all too common in books of this nature. Someone asked me if I get a kickback from sales.