I began lowering him to the bed and he says to me clear as I choose to play stupid but trust me I know everything you think I dont shirt . Mike is adopted, don’t say anything I promised Fran his wife he wouldn’t find out until we were both dead. I absolutely hate situations where I am asked to keep important information from someone. But this takes on more meaning because this is the person I love more than anyone in the whole wide world. It rented free space on my brain and within 24 hours my FIL had passed. We had a funeral and I stayed back to comfort and help my MIL settle her daily routine. We were driving and I wanted to close Pandora’s box and relieve the burden on my heart by feeding her every excuse to lie to me.