Without warning, and be willing to wait patiently until your narcissist becomes bored with Horror character movie we use to smile and then we worked at Denny’s shirt, or disenchanted by, their new person, or until that person displays feelings of unhappiness and becomes as worthless as you. You must be willing to be patient and wait, do not feel sad, don’t cry, don’t react negatively, stay positive they will come back to you when they feel like it. You must be willing to allow this in and out behavior to happen multiple times, and never tire of it, you must never see it as an issue. You must be willing to embrace the revolving door. You must be willing to appreciate the uncertainties, anxieties and insecurities of them leaving you for something better any time they feel bored or anxious with themselves.