I got up checked the time and it was 4:00am. Harry Pothead Harry Potter tshirt and my eldest daughter cried saying she’s scared. Then and there I was done. I told him to leave and never return. We had a argument because according to him I choose my fiancé and kids over him. Then I told him they are my family and I would choose them over anyone. You can fuck with me but you don’t fuck with my kids. When I told him that he has no respect for us nor my house his reply was ” you were never there for me after mom passed away so why the fuck should I care. I was this way when mom was alive so I’ll keep doing it.” I was shocked that this grown ass mother fucker has a small mind. I asked him to leave I don’t want to see him again