Just pray and ask the Lord to take your loved one home if their soul is ready and if they’re ready I guarantee the Draunt like a normal aunt only drunker Christmas shirt Lord will take them home. Suffer here for a little while or suffer for an eternity. We can’t play God. There is life after death heaven or hell. God is imaginary, and so is everyone else’s. Religion should never dictate law or government policy. As an aside should I be wrong hell would be a better place than sharing heaven with folks like yourself. We play god all the time. A baby is born with a hole in his heart. We don’t say, well if God wants this baby to live, then it will be healed.